Love is...Unselfish

You know, this is just one of those cliche quotes about love.

But have you ever really think that love is unselfish?

Love is unselfish, which is mean that you put your lover's need above you, you don't push him to what you want to make you happy.

Love is unselfish, which means that you choose to understand his needs, you choose to be busier than you ever was for him. Yeah, busy i say. Loving someone is sometimes troublesome.

We are human. We are all selfish. I must admit that i am very selfish. I only think about me and me.

But let's repeat this phrase again, for, maybe a thousand times in this article.

If you want to love someone, you should think of him more than you think about yourself.

That even on your busiest day, you are willing to make time in your precious lunch-time to call. To check on him, making sure if he's alright.

And when you get married (to me this is a great sacrifice, a proof that love is unselfish) we, as a woman, have to give up some dreams that haven't come true.

That you give your all to him.

That you have faith in him.

That you can see yourself with some broken dreams, but still manage to smile. Because you know, in the end, even if you don't run a huge company, or being such a career lady, it's all worth it. That you are willing to be the woman behind all your husband's successes.

Girls, let's imagine us, in a homey home, snuggling with 3 wonderful kids, while your husband runs a huge company, which was one of your dreams.

If you are willing to do that, then you are a great person.

Singles, let's examine ourselves.

Love is unselfish, are you willing to make time for your mate? Or let go some dreams that have not come true to stay home, do dishes, raising kids?

When you are willing to, with a sincere heart, love will find you.

Be blessed.

Need or willing to?

You know, there's a difference between these two things, huge one.

If you need to be loved, then like most people, you will be with someone because you feel the need of love and care from someone else.

But if you are willing to love, it will be because you are willing to share your life with someone, that you are ready to be with someone whom you care and cares about you. And the most important thing is, that you are ready for commitment.

Most people wonders, why do I stay single?

and i just smile, mostly.

It is because I'm not ready, and i don't need to be loved by someone, I have all the love I needed.

But I want to.

I want to love and be loved, just, not now.

Sometimes I feel the rush of jealousy running through my veins.

How dare people have someone to be with on the weekend?

While here I am, having a relationship with my activities.

But then, why rush? There are so many couples that are stuck in an unhappy relationship, just because they need to be loved.

At first it felt sweet, having someone around.

But then, when the difficulties come, when this relationships that based on "need-to-be-loved" comes to an end, there will be a lot of tears and 2 broken hearts.

Yes, girls, not every love story has a happy ending. But you can always learn something.

My tips, for all the singles, who are waiting for the right guy, don't just jump into the first man who come around and show you a lil' attention. Wait. Patiently.

Don't make someone to be the reason of your happiness, because when they're gone, you are left with nothing.

Trust me, if you feel the need of having someone around you, you don't.

And it is totally different, if you choose to love someone sincerely, because you are willing to, it feels different. Really.

So why rush? Why not wait for God's greatest gift?

Love when your heart is ready, not when you are lonely.

Be blessed!