Your Ideal Things

Everybody has a standards on everything. How they would like to be judged, what kind of book they are outside, what color defines them, and the kind of book they want to buy, read, and re-read it over and over again. It is called the ideal things.
We all have it. And the things that we pay attention the most is our ideal things about our lover. Who we want him to be. How we want him to treat us. And many other things.
People said, well, girls said, it is hard to be a girl. You give too much and you get your heart broken, and this and that.
Well, think again.
Which one is harder, being a girl, or being a boy?
A boy is judged by how he treats his girl, he is judged by everything. Someone said, if you find a guy who pauses his video games to text you back, marry him. Isn't it such a low standards for us to marry someone? Do you know that you worth more than just pausing a video games?
That puts a boy, to a unacceptable standards. The society taught him to do that.
Every broken girl blame someone, a boy from their past that did her wrong, and make her strong.
But if a boy is broken, nobody cares! Dude, grow up, you're supposed to be strong.
It isn't fair, is it?
Your ideal things, is it fair?
Who are you to judge?
There's a quote, a lot of quotes, that confused every boy's mind. Life puts them in a road with so many branch. Be a gentleman, be the guy who pays for everything, be the guy who loves to bring flowers.
So what is your ideal man?
Does he exist?
Or is it merely your over-thinking stuffs, creating your kind of prince charming?
I'm not telling you that he doesn't exist. He does.
It's just, you should remember that to get yourself a prince, you should be a princess.