But have you ever really think that love is unselfish?
Love is unselfish, which is mean that you put your lover's need above you, you don't push him to what you want to make you happy.
Love is unselfish, which means that you choose to understand his needs, you choose to be busier than you ever was for him. Yeah, busy i say. Loving someone is sometimes troublesome.
We are human. We are all selfish. I must admit that i am very selfish. I only think about me and me.
But let's repeat this phrase again, for, maybe a thousand times in this article.
If you want to love someone, you should think of him more than you think about yourself.
That even on your busiest day, you are willing to make time in your precious lunch-time to call. To check on him, making sure if he's alright.
And when you get married (to me this is a great sacrifice, a proof that love is unselfish) we, as a woman, have to give up some dreams that haven't come true.
That you give your all to him.
That you have faith in him.
That you can see yourself with some broken dreams, but still manage to smile. Because you know, in the end, even if you don't run a huge company, or being such a career lady, it's all worth it. That you are willing to be the woman behind all your husband's successes.
Girls, let's imagine us, in a homey home, snuggling with 3 wonderful kids, while your husband runs a huge company, which was one of your dreams.
If you are willing to do that, then you are a great person.
Singles, let's examine ourselves.
Love is unselfish, are you willing to make time for your mate? Or let go some dreams that have not come true to stay home, do dishes, raising kids?
When you are willing to, with a sincere heart, love will find you.
Be blessed.
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